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Adult Fiction, Netgalley Reviews

The Griffin Sisters’ Greatest Hits by Jennifer Weiner

Ages 18+

This novel follows sisters Cassie and Zoe Grossberg, who were born a year apart, but who couldn’t be more different. They became famous and changed their name to Griffin. The story follows them and their bandmates in the early 2000s as well as a character named Cherry whose timeline takes place in 2024.

I thought the book dragged until I got about 60% into it, and then I flew through it, because that’s when it got interesting. Weiner’s books are hit or miss for me.

Thanks to Netgalley for a review copy of this book.

Events

The History, Science & How of Happiness

I attended this library program in person, and it was great! It was chock full of information about mental health and the benefits of being happy. We even did a few minutes of laughter yoga together! Did you know that the brain can’t tell the difference between real and forced laughter? So the “laughing” we did during yoga actually helped improve our moods!

The Benefits of Laughter

  • Reduces stress
  • Boosts immune system
  • Improves mood
  • Promotes relaxation
  • Enhances social connections

The presenter spoke about positivity and happiness and the ancient people who studied it – Buddha, Confucius, Socrates and Aristotle. She then mentioned Abraham Maslow who took a look at happiness and fulfillment through positive psychology in 1954.

Martin Seligman is a modern psychologist who says to “stop trying to undo the negative, and just focus on the positive,” and came up with the 5 foundations of wellbeing: positive emotions, engagement, meaning, positive relationships and accomplishments.

The presenter said that 40% of your happiness comes from your own efforts! Positive emotions improve heart health, lowers blood pressure, reduces stress and boosts immune the system.

Little Steps to Bigger Joy

  • Connect With Nature
    • Sit outside
    • Take a walk
    • Get houseplants
  • Establish Complaint-Free Zones
    • With certain people
    • At certain meals
  • Reflect on Joyful Memories
    • Focus on the moments that bring us joy – who was there, what did you learn etc.
    • Do soemthing nice for no reason – helps them and helps us, too!
  • Maintain Positive Relationships
    • People with strong, meaningful relationships are happier & healthier
  • Explore Your Spiritual Side
    • Reduces stress etc.
  • Choose Joy
    • Put your mind to it!
  • Learn Something New
    • Learn a new skill, or go to programs at the library!
  • Listen to Beautiful Music
    • Great for the nervous system
  • Exercise
    • Treats symptoms of so many health issues and it’s a mood booster
  • Practice Gratitude
    • Count your blessings!
  • Make Art
    • 30 minutes two times a week gives your cognitive benefits, mood boost
    • Examples: reading or adult coloring
  • Feed Your Mood
    • Eat what increases joy – chicken, tuna, oatmeal, fruit, nuts, yogurt, salmon, tryptophan.

Resources

  • Visitfinland.com – Finland is the happiest place on Earth!
  • Actionforhappiness.org
  • Psychology & the Good Life – online course to take through Yale

Reflection:
I loved this program and I loved that we got to take home the two-week gratitude journal. I’ve been doing it, and I think it’s wonderful! I think I’ll continue in a journal after the two weeks are up.

Art, Events

Collage Workshop

It’s Women’s History Month, so I attended a Women’s History Month collage workshop in person at the library! The presenter provided all the materials and I had a blast! I used to collage using magazines, scissors and glue all the time as a kid on a rainy day, and this brought back memories. I still collage today sometimes with magazines, but I mostly collage on the PicCollage app and digitally.

The presenter had scissors, glue, magazines, different materials and printed photos of famous women (mostly artists) and told us to pick a theme, so I chose music. I put Tina Turner and Billie Holiday on my collage, and added color around the border from an artists who used to do quilting, whose name escapes me now. I also took sheet music and cut it up to use as a background, as well as colored paper, especially since the photos of the women I used were in black and white. I used a piece of cardboard and glued it onto a brown paper shopping bag as the canvas.

Reflections:
I had a lot of fun making my collage for about an hour and a half! You can see it above. As a side note, the presenter also had a radio with music on in the background with lots of female singers (from before my time – I recognized the songs but couldn’t tell you who was singing them). She knew them all, and told us who they were anyway! I thought that was pretty cool, and the presenter knew a lot about all of the famous people’s lives! She was full of information!

Adult Fiction, Netgalley Reviews, Romance

Say You’ll Remember Me by Abby Jimenez

Ages 18+

In Say You’ll Remember Me, Samantha meets veterinarian Xavier in Minnesota and they go on one date right before she moves back to California to be with her family. The two are smitten with each other from the start, however, and try to make it work. 

This novel was so much more than a rom-com in that it dealt with some harder topics, but then that’s typical of Jimenez’s works, which I love. This one gave me all the feels!

I just loved this story! It’s quite possibly my favorite of all Abby Jimenez’s novels. This is an absolute can’t miss!

Thanks to Netgalley for a review copy of this book.

Events

Food Programs At the Library

A Taste of Korea

This two-hour long program was hosted by Korean women who made us a home-cooked Korean meal. First, they gave a presentation about the health benefits of Korean food, and demonstrated how to make two dishes. They also showed a short film on the culture and history of Korea. We ate a ton of delicious traditional Korean food in the traditional bowls they used. They also gave out free books and recipes of Korean food. I really enjoyed this program!

Sushi Making Workshop

A sushi chef from one of the local restaurants brought all cooked ingredients to make sushi. We got to use all the food, and made five different types of sushi rolls. Mine kind of looks like a mess, and I forgot to take a photo of it after he cut it up for me into little pieces. But, I tried my best! It still tasted amazing and look at all that free sushi!

Reflections
I have to admit, whenever there’s a program with food, I’m there. Especially when I get to learn about cultures and histories other than my own. I highly enjoyed these programs!

Adult Fiction, Netgalley Reviews, Romance

If Tomorrow Never Comes by Allison Ashley

Ages 18+

This novel follows Elliot, a woman who meets Jamie at a bar one night and gives him a fake name, never expecting to see him again. She’s in down for a cancer treatment and doesn’t want to get too involved with anyone for several reasons. 

A year later though, their paths cross again, but things are more complicated than you’d think. 

If I’m being honest, I enjoyed this book a lot more than I thought I would. I was wary and knew it was “sick lit” going into it, but it wasn’t too sad. I enjoyed it overall and would recommend it!

Thanks to Netgalley for a review copy of this book.

Adult Fiction, Netgalley Reviews, Romance, Series, Tear Jerkers

The Love We Found by Jill Santopolo

Ages 18+

When I found out that Jill Santopolo was publishing a sequel to The Light We Lost, I literally gasped with excitement. That novel is one of my all-time favorite, five-star books, and The Love We Found didn’t disappoint!

The story takes place ten years after the death of Lucy’s love Gabriel, and everything that came after. If you loved the first one, and no doubt you will if you love books that tug at your heartstrings, you will definitely adore The Love We Found!

Thanks to Netgalley for a review copy of this book.

Events

Self-Care Tips For Women Workshop

I attended this library program with two of my friends. We sat at tables together and the presenter spoke, and then we broke into small groups to do an activity. The presenter asked us to go around the room and share one thing about our health that we’re struggling with and one thing we feel good about.

We talked about common health concerns for women:

  • Stress
  • Weight
  • Hormones
  • Depression
  • Anxiety
  • Autoimmune
  • Chronic fatigue

Then we spoke about causes of women’s health issues:

  • Emotional/mental
  • Societal
  • Physical

For physical, our mini group spoke about sleep and how we don’t get enough of it. Because of this, we don’t feel energized, we’re more prone to sickness and inflammation. We also suffer from doing too many things, and having difficulty managing our time.

For emotional and mental, another group discussed the app “Meet Up” where you can socialize, find people with similar interests and find support groups. You can also do this on Facebook or at the library. They said it’s a good idea to take up meditation or a hobby, and to set a timer for using apps on your phone, like scrolling social media.

And last, for societal, the group mentioned family members taking advantage and not having good communication.

Some ideas to help you are to:

  • Pray or have a gratitude journal
  • Set boundaries or say no
  • Negotiate
  • Make decisions about what you will or won’t do
  • Surround yourself with positive influences
  • Prioritize self-care, sleep and protein!
  • Stacking habit – start a new habit when you’re already doing an old habit

Reflections:
I’m glad I went to this program because I learned a lot of good health tips for people in general, and I plan on using them for myself in the near future. I love going to programs like this because they really provide great free information on health!

Adult Fiction, Netgalley Reviews, Romance

And They Had A Great Fall by Shelby Saville

Ages 18+

Jake Laurent is a famous actor, Kat is his friend and ex-lover with whom he has a history. Now they’re back in each other’s lives and they’re trying to keep whatever this relationship is under wraps from the media as they galavant in Copenhagen. Kat has her daughter to worry about and Jake has his reputation. Can they keep their privacy and still make it work? This was an easy, romantic read.

Thanks to Netgalley for a review copy of this book.

Adult Fiction, Humor, Mystery, Netgalley Reviews, Series

Finlay Donovan Digs Her Own Grave by Elle Cosimano

Ages 18+

In this latest installment of the Finlay Donovan series, Fin is at it again. She and her sidekick/friend Vero begrudgingly help Mrs. Haggerty, her elderly, nosey-body neighbor who unfortunately has been caught with a dead body in her backyard. What have they gotten themselves into this time? This series reminds me so much of the Stephanie Plum series by Janet Evanovich. I feel like Finlay and Steph could be besties!

Thanks to Netgalley for a review copy of this book.