Events

The History of Grand Central Terminal

This program was held in person at the library, and I attended with my dad. It took place in a special room they called “the Igloo.” It was my first time in that room, and I thought it was really cool because the movie they showed, which was made by a librarian, was projected on three of the four walls of the room we were sitting in, so it was a completely immersive experience.

It was a documentary about the history of Grand Central Station in NYC, and the history of the railroad beginning in the 1800s to the present day.

Regarding Grand Central, the librarian touched on the whispering wall, the dirty spot on the ceiling they left from after they cleaned it to show how dirty it used to be, and also how the constellations above are backward. He also talked about when Jackie Kennedy saved Grand Central from an untimely demise.

At the end of the presentation, the librarian took questions, and pulled up Google Earth on the screen. He showed us how everything is now 3-D, and you can actually see the buildings how they are in real life. Pretty awesome!

Reflections:
I thought this program was very neat, and I learned a lot about the history of the railroad. I already knew a bunch about the secrets of Grand Central, but it was cool to hear them again. I’m glad I attended this program, and would definitely go back to see another movie or documentary when they show it in the Igloo.

Events

Movies & Open Mic Night at the Library

Oscar Winning Songs

This program was virtual and took place over Zoom. I didn’t enjoy it that much because it was mostly movies and songs from way back in the day (old movies, from like, the 1930s and 40s) and I only recognized Somewhere Over the Rainbow from “The Wizard of Oz.” So, I couldn’t connect with most of it, and ended up turning it off, unfortunately. I felt bad, but I just wasn’t into it.

Open Mic Night/Poetry Slam

This program also took place over Zoom, and I went, not intending to share any poetry of my own. I felt a little uncomfortable because I quickly found out this was clearly a monthly program where the same people show up and know each other, and I was the newbie. I told them I was just there to listen/watch, and enjoyed some of the original poetry. But, it ended up being two hours long, and I turned this one off as well.

Reflections:
Both of these programs ended up being flops!

Netgalley Reviews, Romance, YA Fiction

Take A Chance On Me by Elizabeth Eulberg

Grades 9-12

This sweet YA romance also deals with tough topics such as eating disorders and cheating. Evie fleas to London to visit her dad when a video of her telling off her cheating ex-boyfriend goes viral. She promised herself that she’d swore off guys, but quickly meets and falls for Aiden, a kind, funny, busker whose music she kind of loves. Don’t miss the latest YA romance from Elizabeth Eulberg!

Thanks to Netgalley for a review copy of this book.

Books, Monthly Wrap-Ups

Monthly Wrap-Up: February 2025

Welcome to another blog post of what I read last month! I read 15 books in February and had kind of a slow reading month. I’m looking forward to reading great books in March! Favorite books read in February are: a Bit Much: Poems by Lyndsay Rush, This Book Is Gay by Juno Dawson and Save Me, Stranger by Erika Krouse.

Here are all the books I read in February: (You can click on the linked ones and see my thoughts in separate blog posts for the books I reviewed for Netgalley).

📖 A Bit Much: Poems by Lyndsay Rush
📖 What Do Buddhists Believe? Meaning and Mindfulness In Buddhist Philosophy by Tony Morris
📖 Happiness Is Overrated: Simple Lessons in Finding Meaning In Each Moment by Cuong Lu


📖 Save Me, Stranger by Erika Krouse
📖 You’ll Never Believe Me: A Life Of Lies, Second Tries and Other Stuff I Should Only Tell My Therapist by Kari Ferrell
📖 The Rival by Emma Lord
📱We All Live Here by Jojo Moyes
📖 Vivi Il Momento by Mary Belle
📖 All Along You Were Blooming: Thoughts For Boundless Living by Morgan Harper Nichols
📖 The Butcher by Jennifer Hillier
📖 What Kind of Woman by Kate Baer
📖 Hijab Butch Blues by Lamya H
📖 She Started It by Sian Gilbert
📖 This Book Is Gay by Juno Dawson
📱Take A Chance On Me by Elizabeth Eulberg

Events

Health & Wellness at the Library

Recently, I signed up for a bunch – I mean a bunch – of free library programs at a few libraries near me. Since my schedule has recently opened up, I decided to take advantage, and said to myself: “why not?” Here and in the coming blog posts, I’ll write my thoughts on the library programs I’ll attend. The Tibetan sound healing and mental health and wellness programs are two that I attended in February.

Tibetan Sound Healing

I attended this program in person, and I was lucky enough to also be accompanied by my aunt, uncle and cousins. I’d never done this before, but heard about it. The woman who did it played the bowls at different frequencies, and we all laid out on our yoga mats, starting out in any position that we wanted. I started on my back with my legs bent, and I was glad I did because my back had started hurting two days prior. I was still in pain the day of the program even though I had gone to an acupuncture session the first day of the pain. During the program, I ended up shifting positions and laid on my side, which helped my back a lot, especially since the yoga mat wasn’t nearly padded enough for my back! At the end of the program, the presenter gave us all some moringa oil, and I thought it smelled so good! Now I am on the hunt to buy some (but I have to find some pure oil that isn’t so expensive!)

Reflection:
I liked this program a lot and would definitely go back if I had the chance. I thought it was very relaxing (except for the back pain) and I liked the musical aspect of it as well. I’m glad I gave it a try!

Mindfulness & Mental Wellness Workshop

This program took place virtually, through a local library, on Zoom. They hired a psychologist to lead the program, and she spoke about the importance of mindfulness for one’s mental health. She told us that mindfulness means awareness and openness, strengthens the brain, is an accessible practice, reduces stress and anxiety, and is rooted in Buddhism.

The therapist also discussed the mental health benefits of mindfulness:

  • Reduces stress and anxiety
  • Improves emotional regulation
  • Enhances our focus
  • Helps us stay present and engaged
  • Supports better sleep
  • Builds self-compassion

Also, she told us about some mindfulness practices to help us when in distress:

  • Box Breathing (breath can regulate emotions)
    • Inhale for a count of 4, hold for a count of 4, exhale for 4, and repeat
  • Body Scan
    • Observe and create a shift – listen to your body’s wisdom
    • Tension and stress aren’t just mental
  • The Mind-Body Feedback Loop
    • “Your issues are your tissues”
    • Say to yourself repeatedly: “I am safe, I can let go”
  • Journaling – Pennebaker Method
    • Engages language centers
    • Lowers cortisol levels
    • 15-20 minutes of uninterrupted writing

Takeaways:
Mindfulness is a trainable skill, and it’s flexible! Breath work regulates stress and body awareness reduces tension. Movement disrupts emotional stagnation, and journaling provides insight.

Reflection:
I thought this therapist was great, and this program was a refresher course for me, because I’ve been learning about mindfulness, therapy practices and meditation for years. I’m by no means an expert, and I love reminding myself about the practices of mindfulness and how good they are for my mental health.

Books, Monthly Wrap-Ups

Monthly Wrap-up: January 2025

I’ve been posting my monthly wrap-ups on my bookstagram (Instagram) for years, and it somehow just occurred to me to also post them here. So, starting this year, that’s what I’m going to do. I’m also going to start writing blog posts about bookish things other than just book reviews, such as library programs and authors visits I attend. After all, this blog is about my entire bookish life! So, here goes!

I read 17 books in January, and they were some amazing books! Beautiful Ugly by Alice Feeney was easily my best book of the month. I’m looking forward to some more great reading in February!

Here are all the books I read in January: (You can click on the linked ones and see my thoughts in separate blog posts for the books I reviewed for Netgalley).

📖 The Great Alone by Kristin Hannah
📖 The Life Impossible by Matt Haig
📖 Gena/Finn by Hannah Moskowitz
📖 Society of Lies by Lauren Ling Brown
📖 Becoming Beatrix: The Life of Beatrix Potter and the World of Peter Rabbit by Amy M. O’Quinn
📱 More Or Less Maddy by Lisa Genova
📱 A Killing Cold by Kate Alice Marshall
📱The Conjurer’s Wife by Sarah Penner
🎧 Seasons of Love by Harper Bliss
📖 Rachel Weiss’s Group Chat by Lauren Appelbaum
📖 Party of One: Be Your Own Best Life Partner by Meghan Keane
📖 No Place Left To Hide by Megan Lally
📖 Mistakes Were Made by Meryl Wilsner
📖 The Wedding People by Alison Espach
📱 After Life by Gayle Forman
📖 When Katie Met Cassidy by Camille Perri
📖 Beautiful Ugly by Alice Feeney

Adult Fiction, Netgalley Reviews, Thriller

A Killing Cold by Kate Alice Marshall

Ages 18+

Theodora Scott is on her way to her fiancé Connor Dalton’s wealthy family’s retreat in the woods, Idlewood. It was a whirlwind romance, and the two were engaged within six months of dating.

The thing is, Theo has been getting threatening texts on her phone from an unknown number, warning her to stay away from Connor Dalton. But why? She chooses to ignore them. What she can’t ignore? The snowy footprints she sees outside the cabin window, or the strange sense of familiarity she has that she’s been to Idlewood before. The clincher? She finds a photo of herself as a child, taken right here, at Idlewood.

Theo has almost no memories of herself as a small child, but after seeing the photo, she begins to remember, and piece things together. Things she’s sure she’d rather forget.

Marshall takes readers on a chilling, wild ride, as family secrets unfold in a way they’ll never imagine possible.

Thanks to Netgalley for a review copy of this book.

Adult Fiction, Netgalley Reviews

More Or Less Maddy by Lisa Genova

Ages 18+

Maddy Banks is a perfectly normal 19-year-old girl who is enjoying her life as a NYU college student. Although, of course she’s stressed out, between having to balance her heavy course-load, her friends, and the recent breakup with her boyfriend. But that’s normal, right?

It all seems to be, until she feels unbelievably low. So low that she goes to the school clinic and is prescribed an anti-depressant. It makes her feel better. So much better in fact, that she feels incredible, a high she’s never felt before. This leads her to do some dangerous stuff that all culminates in the diagnosis of bipolar disorder. As Maddy begins to navigate her “new normal,” author Genova takes readers on the highs and lows of the world of bipolar depression in a a very real, but gentle way.

I appreciated the honesty shown of how Maddy deals with life after her diagnosis, and related a lot to it as well, after having been dealing with with my own mental health issues since I was about Maddy’s age. Lisa Genova is in a lane of her own. Five well-deserved stars!

Thanks to Netgalley for a review copy of this book.

Netgalley Reviews, Romance, YA Fiction

Love In 280 Characters Or Less by Ravynn K. Stringfield

Grades 9 – 12

Sydney Ciara Warren is excited to start her first year of college, even though her high school bestie will be attending a different university. She knows she’ll have to make new friends, but she’s hoping her interest in writing and fashion will ultimately help her with that, even if she has no idea what she wants to do with her life just yet. Sydney Ciara finds comfort in blogging about her life, and meets someone online who calls themself “X,” quickly catching feelings. This story is told through blog posts, tweets, emails and more, and I love a good multimedia novel!

Thanks to Netgalley for a review copy of this book.

Books

Christmas 2024

Merry Christmas and Happy New Year, everyone! I’m just popping on to say hello and to post some photos of my bookish Christmas gifts! I got so many this year, some which were on my wish list, and some which were surprises. I got some shirts, books, bookish totes, and a new Kindle, among other bookish things! Here are the photos:

I’ll admit, I’ve had this Kindle since the summer when my Kindle Fire died, but my parents and I agreed it would be a Christmas gift, so my mom wrapped the box, and I opened it as a reminder on Christmas morning. I honestly had forgotten! How else would I have kept up with my Netgalley reviews all these months?

My aunt met the author Mary Belle and got the book signed, personalized and inscribed for me. So cool! And I received The Uncommon Reader from one of my new coworkers at the staff holiday party.

This cute bookish item was on my wishlist, and Santa brought it! It has a photo of a book with flowers coming out of it, and it says “One More Chapter.” The round spot is for my coffee mug, and the rectangle is for my phone. I love this thing!

These t-shirts are awesome and I intend to add them to my weekly rotation. The one on the left is from my sister, brother-in-law and two-month-old niece, and the one on the right is from my parents. I love them both!

These three book totes are perfect for lugging all my books back and forth to the library for my weekly trips! The “All We Read Is Love” is from my aunt, uncle and cousins, the one that says “There Is No Such Thing As Too Many Books” is from another coworker, and “When In Doubt Go to the Library” matches the shirt I got from my parents, and it’s also from them.

So, as my grandfather used to like to say, I “made out like a bandit!” I can’t believe how my family and friends spoiled me this Christmas with all these bookish gifts! I owe them a huge thank you!!! Happy Holidays, everyone!